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Stop Being a Control Freak



Being a control freak means feeling the need to try and control everything and everyone around us.

Most people, at least at some stages of their lives, experience the tendency to want to control life. The difference is in the degree of obsession that we feel about wanting and trying to control the various aspects of our lives.

In the most extreme situations- true control freak territory, the need to control can completely dominate one’s life. If you are desperately afraid of losing control, being ‘out of control,’ or going with the flow is a terrifying and alien concept, your need for control could be controlling you!

By trying too hard to control life, and refusing to let go of anything, we can create a terrible stressful and rigid life for ourselves. It is exhausting to try and control everything around us, and it doesn’t allow for relaxation or spontaneity.

It is also a certain way to create tension and frustration. The reality is that when it comes to life and change, we have very little control over what happens. Trying to control things which are impossible to control can make us feel totally out of control and stressed out.

Rather than being a control freak, a better way to live is to let go of that which is beyond our control, and put our energies into controlling what we can. The one thing over which we can always have control is ourselves. It is possible, and desirable, to control our attitudes, reactions, beliefs, and behavior.

Trying to control the outcome of a situation is not helpful. You can do everything within your power to create the outcome you desire. You can take positive physical steps to achieve a result. You can use affirmations to increase your magnetism to success. You can adjust your thoughts and your beliefs to encourage positive outcomes, but you mostly cannot make life follow your plans.

The same goes for trying to control other people. At times it may seem to be possible to manipulate and dominate others. This is not healthy for either the person ‘in control’ or the one being controlled. It will not create positive results for either person, and it is only a matter of time before the one being controlled gets fed up and either breaks away or becomes resentful and passive aggressive (showing aggression in subtle, underhanded ways).

Instead of trying to control the behavior of a partner or someone else in your life, focus on controlling how you respond to them. If you are unhappy with the way your partner is treating you, you can choose to respond to them calmly and firmly. This is much healthier, and more effective, than trying to manipulate or control them with threats, tears, or nastiness.

And while you can’t control the behavior of another person, you can certainly model an example of how you would like them to behave. If you want your partner to be thoughtful and respectful to you, make sure that you are showing them respect and consideration.

Ironically, the more we try to control things, the more out of control we feel. Because we can never control everything in life, it is only by letting go of the need to control, that we can feel that we are truly in control of ourselves.

The serenity prayer can be powerful in overcoming a need to overcontrol. “Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.”

This can help us to accept and believe that there are some things in our lives that we can change or control, other things that we can’t, and that it truly takes wisdom to focus on the things that are within our control.

To avoid being a control freak, gently but diligently remind yourself that you cannot control everything, and that trying to do so is wasting valuable energy and causing frustration.

Focus on the things that you can control. It is within your power to control your happiness, your attitude, and your response to whatever life brings you.

Optimus Prime Halloween Costume



Men and women and youngsters have been capitivated by the Transformers and its latest sequal, particularly with its advanced visual and sound effects. The awesome and nearly the indispensable robot casts, the Autobots and Decepticons along with the human cast have made a smash movie. Optimus Prime led the story not only in the storyline but most especially in the preference of most Transformers fans and lovers.

Both Optimus Prime and Decepticons are characters in the Transformers universe. Optimus Prime’s ship smashed till a shock on Tues, May 8, 1984, awoke the ship’s correct system, which then mended him and adapted him to have the facility to transform to an Earth auto. He is the leader of the Autobots, a camp of brave Transformers from the planet Cybertron who wage their battles against the evil forces of the Decepticon. Optimus has a robust sense of justice and goodness, and has dedicated himself to the protection of all life, particularly the inhabitants of Earth ; he’ll battle his enemies with intractable resolve. Optimus is the complete reverse of his mortal enemy Megatron, each casualty, human or Cybertronian, weighs heavily on his spark. He does not show this side to his infantrymen, and he never succumbs to despair.

On the battlefield, there are not many who rival Optimus Prime’s capability.

Transformers costumes are a major hit amongst the young boys this year due to the release of the Transformer 2 movie.

This child’s 3D Optimus Prime Costume will literally stand out of the party! The costume is composed of a long-sleeved, polyester jumpsuit that features 3D body armor over the chest, shoulders, wrists and ankles. The armor is made out of foam and is screen-printed like the jumpsuit to give it an Autobots look. It has velcro in the back for closure and matches the included plastic mask. All that you need to finish this Transformers look is a couple of our Optimus Prime gloves and sword!

Your child will love dressing up in this Optimus Prime Costume for Halloween or your next fancy dress gathering. It looks so authentic and your kid will feel great in this costume and be a triumph among his mates and peers.

Wolverine Costumes Bringing out the X-Men in You



Wolverine is a Marvel Comics superhero. He first saw print in the 180th issue of The Incredible Hulk in October of 1974. He was created by art director John Romita Sr. and Len Wein. Wolverine subsequently joined the “All New, All Different X-Men” in May 1975. Chris Claremont, one of the X-Men comic’s most prolific writers, created much of the myths about arguably the most iconic X-Men character of all time. John Byrne also helped create Wolverine’s background story. Claremont later collaborated with Frank Miller and gave the character more depth with a series of four comics in the latter part of 1982.

Logan (legal name James Howlett) is one of Wolverine’s more well-known aliases. He is a mutant who possesses a speedy healing factor which allows him to bounce back after even the most mortal wounds. He has enhanced senses, particularly the sense of smell. He also has formidable bone claws and great physical abilities. He is even impervious to toxins or diseases, which has given him his long lifespan. He was chosen to be part of the Weapon X super-soldier project due to his healing factor, as the adamantium and bone bonding process could be fatal to normal folk. He is now very popular in and out of comics due to Hugh Jackman’s portrayal of Wolverine in the X-Men movie series.

You can get a Wolverine of whatever style or size from the Internet, or you could make a Wolverine outfit of your own. There are also many accessories available to make you look more like the cigar-chomping character. There are Wolverine costumes such as the Wolverine Muscle Costume Deluxe for adults, Muscle Costume Deluxe for kids, and the Wolverine Toddler muscle Costume. You can also lend more verisimilitude to your outfit with a few accessories, such as the Wolverine Deluxe Claws for adults, Wolverine Claws for kids, the Wolverine Origins Mask, the Wolverine Vinyl ¼ Origins Mask, the Wolverine Leather Mask for adults, and the complete Origins Kit. You can even get a Wolverine wig.

Wolverine’s costume has evolved through the years. His initial costume was composed of a mask, skintight overalls, and boots in yellow, with black and blue hints. It later became a black and yellow motif, which turned into brown and yellow in the early 1980s. Some of his other costumes are the half-naked Weapon X outfit, and the “civilian” leather jacket, pants, boots, and wife beater undergarment. There are also so many types of Wolverine Claws to choose from, whether in-glove or bone style.